Jessica Brohmer (she/her)

LMFT 119280
Accepting Clients

I work with queer Christians on exploring identity, faith deconstruction, and reconnecting with your full self.

Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Capitola, CA

  • Free Initial Consultation
  • Contact
  • Individual

About My Clients

You feel disconnected from yourself. You want to reconcile all of who you are. People treat you like a paradox or worse- a theological problem to solve. You’re queer AND Christian. You don’t want to have to hide either part of who you are, but it feels like nobody else understands how it’s possible to be both at once. You want to heal from spiritual trauma, harshness, and disconnection without rejecting your faith. In therapy, you don’t want to choose between faith-based or LGBT affirming.

My Background and Approach

I help queer Christians navigate the rocky path of reconciling your faith identity with your gender and sexual identity. In sessions, I give you space to explore life as it comes. I gently press, give honest feedback, and give you space to process areas of shame and pain without judgment. You’ll feel heard, understood, and supported. Even when these patterns feel repetitive, we’ll work through them. You’ll get insights into yourself and your inner world. We’ll transform these insights into practical steps to help these challenging concepts and difficult tasks feel achievable. Therapy with me will help you feel more like yourself. You’ll get language to talk about what’s going on for you which may or may not include a formal diagnosis. Your inner dialogue will improve. Instead of internalized shame and blame, you’ll learn to talk to yourself with kindness and understand your past in light of grace. You’ll learn how to pay attention to what’s going on inside.

My Personal Beliefs and Interests

You are welcome here just as you are. All of you. And whether you want to talk directly about your gender, sexuality, or faith, this is a place where you can be fully yourself.

Insurance Plans Accepted
  • Out of Network
I offer online counseling in the following states:
I have experience with the following
  • Christianity

At A Glance

  • Experience: 7 years of practice
  • Languages: English
  • Rate: $160/session

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