For some, participation in sexual activities is no longer about pleasure and it becomes more of a compulsion or addiction. The experience can become one of craving and impulsivity that leads to shame, rather than pleasure or joy. My experience working with sexual addiction and sexual compulsivity includes running intensive outpatient groups on problematic sexual behavior for many years, as well as working with individuals and couples to address compulsive sexual behavior.
Sexual desires come in many shapes, sizes, colors and experiences. For those who don't enjoy the traditional model of what some call "vanilla sex," it can feel lonely and isolating to believe that you are 'different.' Well I am here to tell you that there's no need to feel alone! As a certified sex therapist, it is my goal and mission to help you connect with others who have similar sexual desires, and to be able to live out your fantasies shame free.
My specialty is helping people with sexual problems, particularly: erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, low libido, vaginismus, painful sex, lack of orgasm, lack of sex between partners, and sexless 'marriages.' Helping people overcome sexual fears, inhibitions, and performance anxiety so that they can be their best sexual self is my passion.