Sara Okman (She/her/hers)

MFT #97466

I'm a couples counselor & sex therapist specializing in desire discrepancy, low sexual marriage, polyamory, CNM, & kink.

Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in San Francisco, CA

About My Clients

I specialize in helping clients foster better relationships with themselves and their loved ones. Through couples counseling or individual work, I help identify unhealthy patterns that are causing disconnection, address and heal traumatic underpinnings that are keeping relationships stuck, and teach new tools that increase intimacy and trust. You will learn how to stop beating yourself up with negative self talk, and form a practice of radical self compassion.

My Background and Approach

As a trained sex therapist, I help couples navigate desire discrepancy, find viable solutions for low-sexual marriages, and support people navigating the impact of extra-marital relationships, including infidelity, polyamory, and consensual non-monogamy. I am comfortable and experienced exploring matters of the heart and its often oppositional needs. I have had extensive post-graduate training in sex therapy, couples work, and fertility counseling, including advanced training in EFT (Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy), Imago Relationship Therapy with Harville Hendrix, and the Gottman method. I am currently studying couples counseling and sexuality with Esther Perel, and am working towards certification as a Relational Life Therapist with Terry Real. Let me share what I’ve learned with you. I specialize in helping people find clarity, authenticity, and fulfillment in their relationships with their loved ones and themselves.

I offer online counseling in the following states:
I have experience with the following
  • Agnosticism
  • Atheism
  • Buddhism
  • Christianity
  • Judaism
  • Interfaith

At A Glance

  • Experience: 13 years of practice
  • Rate: $200 - 220/session


415-877-4147 Email Sara
57 Post street
Suite 809
San Francisco, CA 94104
6 Knoll Lane
Suite 1A
Mill Valley, CA 94941

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