Sexual Addiction

Sex is a normal part of life and does not present a problem for most people. However, it can become an issue for some. Sexual addiction, or sex addiction, is characterized as a state of compulsive participation or engagement in sexual activity, particularly sexual intercourse, despite negative consequences. Individuals with a sex addition act out sexually in ways they feel they cannot control, and which may be detrimental to their health and relationships. Sex addiction typically progresses over time, with compulsive sexual thoughts and acts becoming more extreme as it advances. A sexual addiction can manifest in a number of ways. It might be limited to compulsive masturbation or the excessive viewing of pornography, or it may include such extreme behaviors as exhibitionism or rape. If you think you might be experiencing a sexual addiction, reach out to one of TherapyDen’s experts today.

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As a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, I work with addicts to help them address their compulsive and problematic sexual behaviors, repair relationships, and recapture their authenticity and integrity. I work as well with the partners of sex addicts to help them address betrayal trauma. I provide individual, couples, and group therapy for these issues.

— Rick Isenberg, Licensed Professional Counselor in Scottsdale, AZ

Are porn and sex leaving you feeling empty? Sex addiction can be difficult to talk about--finding the right person to talk about it with can be even harder. Together we'll look at not only what's necessary to shift the behavior but the core issues that are keeping you stuck so you can experience real freedom and connection. I have CSAT training as well as half a decade of working in sexual addiction recovery centers.

— Christian Holmes, Associate Marriage & Family Therapist in Pasadena, CA
 

I am a Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist. I have extensive training with the international institute of trauma and addiction professionals, found by Dr. Patrick Carnes and other leaders in the field of sex addiction. Sex and Porn addiction treatment needs specialized care. If you are looking for help in this area of your life, I can help. I have over a decade of experience working with individuals like you who want to overcome sex and porn addiction.

— Earl Klebe, Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Long Beach, CA

My unique level of insight in this can have you create lasting change, faster improvements in self management, improved mood, and reduced recidivism. Please call me now for free 20 minute phone consult, I would love to help you protect the life that you have from sexual misbehavior consequences. Hope to hear from you soon. Telehealth / Video Sessions Only.

— "Sex Addiction", Sexual Misbehavior Absolute Expert James Foley, Psychotherapist in Los Angeles, CA
 

For over 30 years I have been a specialist in helping people to overcome sex addiction. I'm non-judgmental and am very open to hearing what your experiences have been. I offer warm caring guidance.

— Dr Don Etkes, Sex Therapist in Claremont, CA

As a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, I work with addicts to help them address their compulsive and problematic sexual behaviors, repair relationships, and recapture their authenticity and integrity. I work as well with the partners of sex addicts to help them address betrayal trauma. I provide individual, couples, and group therapy for these issues.

— Rick Isenberg, Licensed Professional Counselor in Scottsdale, AZ
 

As a member of the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapist, I must point out that in the field of sex therapy is the shift from "Sex Addiction," rather than "Out-of-Control Sexual Behaviors." I subscribe to AASECT's version as it more compassionate view towards the client and more in line with contemporary clinical thinking. I use protocol developed by Douglas Braun-Harvey and Michael Vigorito which involved the creation of a sexual health plan.

— Jessica Morillo, Licensed Clinical Social Worker

Expert evidence based research oriented treating of “Sex Addiction”, Serial Affairs-Infidelity-Cheating, Child Porn, Prostitution use, Cam Girls, Hook-Up Apps, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, Compulsivity, Professional Sexual Misconduct, Sex Offenses, as a Certified sexual misbehavior professional, and I want to help you correct your thinking and behaviors

— Sexual Misbehavior Absolute Expert James Foley, Psychotherapist in Brooklyn, NY
 

I lead groups, workshops and offer consultation on sexual addiction. I have worked with those suffering from sexual addiction for over ten years.

— D.J. Burr, Licensed Mental Health Counselor in Seattle, WA

I help people struggling with out-of-control sexual behavior. For some, abstinence or having "bottom-line" behaviors (in line with 12 step groups) works for them. For others, the addiction model is not helpful, and I work with them to explore the feelings and core beliefs that are driving their behaviors, and to develop strategies to be able to have satisfying and non-compulsive sexual relationships with themselves and others.

— Jeffrey Kishner, Mental Health Counselor in , NY
 

Problematic sexual behaviors (also known as "sex addiction" in our culture) is identified by Doug Bruan-Harvey, and which is the mindset I come from in my work, to be “a sexual health problem in which an individual’s consensual sexual urges, thoughts, and behaviors feel out of control [to them]” (p. 10), as opposed to as a mental illness (as in the Sex Addiction, SAA or 12-step, model). Helping my clients define, and work toward, their own version of sexual health is my goal.

— Jessica VerBout, Marriage & Family Therapist in Minnetonka, MN

Sex addiction is a unique and complex issue. My experience working at the Prescott house a household name in the treatment of sex addiction and that the Meadows IOP running their men's intimacy group has made me uniquely qualified to work with sex addicts. As a CSAT-C I have experience utilizing Patrick Carnes 30 task model in addition to other modalities. Sex addicts for the 1st time have a straightforward roadmap for recovery and I found healing.

— Mordy Gottlieb, Therapist in Scottsdale, AZ
 

We have helped many individuals survive the consequences of sex addiction. We know that with hard work and a commitment many find peace from the noise and pain that sex addiction creates. At Novus, our expert therapists believe everyone can overcome sex addiction. We have seen it happen. At Novus, we see sex addiction as the compulsive use of sex to deal with painful feelings and moods. The behavior leaves the person feeling guilty and shameful. It creates more problems in the person’s life. To deal with these problems and the emotional pain the person turns back to sex to find some escape. The sex addiction cycle continues. Even the loss of their marriage, relationship or job does not mean they will stop. They look to sex as the solution. Like the drug addict who knows the drug will end his pain, so does the sex addict. The problems of sex addiction are real and painful. Often, the person using compulsive sex gains little long-term satisfaction from the behavior. They feel lonely, depressed and out of control, which in turn leads them back to the addictive sex to “feel better.”

— Duane Osterlind, LMFT, CSAT, Marriage & Family Therapist in Long Beach, CA

Sexual addiction can be quite difficult to manage and most times people wait way too long to get the help they need. In treating sexual addiction, I take an attachment based perspective where we will explore unmet meets and help you understand the function of the behavior. Give me a call and we can chat more about what you are struggling with and how I can help.

— Michael Stokes, Mental Health Counselor in Newport, RI
 

If you don't find the sexual addiction model effective -- or have not had success with 12-step programs -- I can help you explore the feelings and core beliefs driving your out-of-control sexual behavior, and help you develop strategies to continue gaining fulfillment from your sexual behaviors (provided they are not harmful) without the compulsivity.

— Jeffrey Kishner, Mental Health Counselor in , NY

I am a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist through the International Institute of Trauma and Addiction Professionals. The focus of my clinical practice is on working with women navigating challenges related to sex, love, and/or relationship addictions.

— Aly Dearborn, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Los Angeles, CA
 

If you don't find the sexual addiction model effective -- or have not had success with 12-step programs -- I can help you explore the feelings and core beliefs driving your out-of-control sexual behavior, and help you develop strategies to continue gaining fulfillment from your sexual behaviors (provided they are not harmful) without the compulsivity.

— Jeffrey Kishner, Mental Health Counselor in , NY

I am a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist and have worked in the field of sex addiction for several years. I have experience working in inpatient and outpatient settings specifically focused on sexual addiction.

— Crystal Nesfield, Counselor in Phoenix, AZ
 

I am a certified sexual addiction therapist and trained with the association of partners of sex addicts trauma specialists.

— Barbara Christian, Marriage & Family Therapist in Long Beach, CA