Darrin Pfannenstiel (he/him)

I am currently obtaining my sex therapy certification through the Sexual Health Alliance (www.sexualhealthalliance.com), an AASECT-approved education program. I am a "sex-positive" therapist which means that I do not shame clients for ANY sexual issue they want to discuss.Contrary to what some believe, there’s nothing strange, deviant, or kinky about seeing a sex therapist. The bottom line is that people experience sexual problems and need a professional who specializes in that type of therapy.

I obtained my master's degree in counseling and development with a special focus on marriage, family and couples counseling. I don't need all persons in the relationship in therapy as a result. Often, if just one person comes to counseling and changes, it can have a systemic impact on the relationship in a way that the relationship shifts to a healthier, happier one.

Thankfully, society is changing. Men are now open to seeking therapy and/or coaching, but often, they want a male therapist who understand the demands placed on men. Most, but not all, of my clients are males who are professionals or executives such as real estate developers, executives, leaders, and entrepreneurs. What they have in common is that they seek not just counseling but help with navigating the stresses of business deals or corporate environments.

By using evidence-based approaches like The Gottman Method and Bowen Family Systems, I can help you create new ways of relating to one another. You’ll learn to reduce conflict, improve communication, and rebuild. You’ll reconnect. At the end of each session, my goal is for you to leave with something concrete to apply daily. It might be something new to try or think about, something to read, or a new tool to begin using. These small steps will add up to the big changes you need to repair, reb

The most common topics I hear from men have to do with the following: Confidence, Feeling Stuck, Work-Life Balance, Anxiety, Stress Management, Intimacy/Relationships, Loneliness, and Depression. IF YOUR’E DEALING WITH ANY OF THESE, I’D LIKE TO HELP YOU.

I have training as a meditation and mindfulness teacher. I have been a practicing Buddhist now for over 25 years. That said, I only incorporate evidence-based mindfulness approaches into my practice. And as a former executive (now business owner), I also coach clients who need help with professional skills such as time management, project management, and managing people.

I have training as a meditation and mindfulness teacher. I have been a practicing Buddhist now for over 25 years. That said, I only incorporate evidence-based mindfulness approaches into my practice. And as a former executive (now business owner), I also coach clients who need help with professional skills such as time management, project management, and managing people.

I am certified in sex therapy by the Sexual Health Alliance (SHA), recognized as one of the top AASECT-approved programs in the nation for sex therapy by Forbes Health. I work with both individuals and couples on a variety of sexual interests and concerns.