About My Clients
Lots of things done by less-experienced marriage counselors are a waste of time. You don't need improved communication skills (because you're not in a boardroom). Or help dividing up chore charts or learning some prescribed script to follow in every fight (because you are not seven). What you need is to feel connected again. What you need is to speak up for yourself knowing you'll be met, heard and loved. What you need is a safe ship and smart captain who makes sense of the chaos and conflict.
My Background and Approach
When I work with couples we go deep. You'll stop seeing your partner as the "bad guy," and you won't let yourself feel like a victim for one more second. You'll be back on an even playing field, the way it was when you first met, and that's the place change happens. Your marriage can be passionate again. Loving. Exciting. Sweet. Your marriage can be your sanctuary, where you are most alive, most able to speak up and be yourself. Even after betrayal, even after hard times, things can get good again. I've helped dozens of couples come through massive challenges stronger than before. Therapy with a seasoned expert can save your marriage, bring back the spark, and create the strongest connection you've ever had. You owe it to your family and yourself to find out how much better your relationship can be.
My Personal Beliefs and Interests
I believe that relationships are the laboratory of personal growth. I believe the universe nudges us together with the exact person who will force us to know and heal our old wounds.