San Rafael Therapists specializing in Gender Identity

Jess Gioia

Looking for a therapist is stressful; it's even harder when you're queer or kinky or poly or a sex worker. No one wants to worry about being judged or having to explain basic aspects of your identity or relationship before getting anything done. That's why I specialize in members of sexual and gender minority groups- our common basis of understanding accelerates the pace at which we can work toward those goals which are unique to you.

Ryan Gertz

I see individuals, couples and children. I believe what we become aware of, we have the ability to transform, if we choose. I also believe in the power of the stories we tell ourselves, as having deep meaning guiding our lives. If we can become aware of what is driving us, the stories, we will have a lot of influence on the rest of our lives. I enjoy working with anxiety, depression, ADHD and neuro-divergent challenges, relationship challenges, mens work, and those unnamable burdens we all have.

Derek Rubinstein

I work with a broad range of people struggling with depression, anxiety, PTSD/trauma (shock and complex/developmental), interpersonal problems, obsessive/compulsive patterns of thinking and behaving, substance use/abuse, ADHD, High Functioning Autism/Asperger's, personal discovery and spiritual development, preparation and integration of psychedelic experiences or other expanded states of consciousness, and people interested in vipassana/mindfulness meditation.

Adam Cohen

Adolescents/teens, young adults, and people across the gender and sexuality spectrums are my areas of focus. I specifically help people relieve the symptoms of shame, anxiety, depression, and inner criticism by guiding them towards self-understanding and self-compassion with action-oriented steps.

Kerry Graser

I work with individuals, both long and short-term on issues of anxiety, depression, overcoming pain from the past, and a general feeling of being “stuck.” I also specialize in working with the LGBTQ community, and more specifically, gender nonconforming and transgender adolescents. I provide gender assessments, parenting consultations and individual therapy. I recognize that parents may be simultaneously going through a process of their own as their child’s gender expression changes.

Hannah Joharchi

You're freaked out and in scarcity mindset. You feel like you carry it all and people just don't see how much you're trying and what you're really going through on the inside. I so hear you. You're over there wondering "why don't they get me?!" and I'd like to help you move to "wow, they see me!" and more importantly I want to help you get to "phew, NOW I SEE ME." I work with folks to get the love they always wanted within and ask for it in more digestable ways.

Sara Okman

I specialize in helping clients foster better relationships with themselves and their loved ones. Through couples counseling or individual work, I help identify unhealthy patterns that are causing disconnection, address and heal traumatic underpinnings that are keeping relationships stuck, and teach new tools that increase intimacy and trust. You will learn how to stop beating yourself up with negative self talk, and form a practice of radical self compassion.

Paula Mierzejewski

Marla Caplan

My clients are highly sensitive people who frequently express themselves as artists, writers, thinkers and makers. I work with individuals seeking to actualize their most authentic self and help couples and families to repair their relationships and restore harmony in their lives.

Dax Glasson-Darling

We might work well together if you are seeking therapy to: Explore sexuality, gender identity, and gender expression. Experience more intimacy and connection with others. Cultivate hope, motivation, creativity, and playfulness. Learn how to set boundaries in a way that makes sense for you. Feel less overwhelmed without feeling numb. Heal from trauma so you can live your life. Make time for yourself without feeling guilty. Experience feelings of worthiness in contrast to feeling “not good enough"

Lindsay Elizondo

I specialize in working with women, young adults (~18-25), relationship issues, depth work, LGBTQ+ community, and religious harm/trauma. I really enjoy working with people who are sensitive or a bit countercultural, and helping women examine the impact of sociocultural norms and expectations (e.g., to not take up space). Much healing can be had in challenging these messages, reconnecting with your body and emotions, accepting yourself as you are, and re-centering your values and your voice.

Olivia Parker

Our relationships with ourselves can be complicated. Together, let’s better understand how your life circumstances have gotten you to where you are today. What is working for you? What is not working for you? How is your relationship with yourself affecting your relationships with others?

Mark Allen Resch

You want to fit in your own skin and live in balance—finally fully being you. You’re ready to make peace with that inner critic. It's time to take on those things you’ve been putting off for too long. You deserve to find internal stability, nurture more rewarding relationships, and gain a sense of belonging and community. I can help you get there.

Claire Greenwood

I love working with gender expansive folk. I've worked with people at all stages of transition-- pre and post hormones/ surgery, folks who are just exploring, folks who don't fit into any neat boxes. Therapy provides a space where your unique self can emerge. Let's explore together.

Manali Deolalkar

A lot of my work is focused around self-esteem and self-worth with clients looking into identity exploration, family conflicts and social trauma. I have a few years of experience working with adults dealing with anxiety, depression, sexual trauma, relationship issues, life transitions and sexual behaviours. I work with BIPOC adults, women, immigrants, tech workers, lgbtq+ Bipoc individuals, folks in helping professions, and people who are first time in therapy.

Alex Graham

While specializing with a particular population can have value, I have chosen to keep my practice open to anyone who feels inclined to work with me. I value the unique expression of life that each person is, and want to help you become who you truly are.

Brown Therapy Center

We work with a diverse population of adult individuals, couples, and special interest groups who may be struggling with any number of mental health challenges related to anxiety, depression, stress, trauma, relationship issues, and substance abuse, among others. We are committed to providing culturally competent care across the spectrum of age, race, gender, sexuality, religion, and background.

Ritu Sood

Life can get difficult sometimes as we try to juggle the demands of the external world while finding internal balance and harmony. We can carry the pain inflicted on us due to circumstances or by others. And sometimes it is just a feeling of wanting something more from life than what seems feasible. These experiences can leave us feeling isolated and disconnected from our sense of aliveness, joy and creativity. I like to support my clients on their journey towards creating a more satisfying life

Melanie Stein

Being human is hard, and we’re not meant to do it alone. There are lots of things in our lives that can cause us to feel disconnected from ourselves, others, or life in general. Therapy is a means by which we can come to meet ourselves and our suffering, and connect more intimately with life through the support of a safe, trusted, loving presence. I aim to provide that presence for my clients. We’ll work together to create a relationship where you feel seen, heard, and supported to process, feel

David Brown

I am uniquely skilled in engaging the struggles related to trauma, life transitions, and the LGBTQ community. Many of the men and women who choose to work with me are in the grips of anxiety, depression, addiction, grief, or relationship challenges. Many are highly motivated professionals that are self-reliant and achievement-focused, but often struggle with self-defeating thoughts and patterns that keep them feeling stuck.