Sexual Problems

- Enhancing Sexual Satisfaction - Resolving Relationship Issues - Addressing Sexual Dysfunction - Exploring Sexual Identity and Orientation - Navigating Life Transitions - Healing from Trauma or Abuse

Most therapists won't talk about sexual problems. Sure, they'll talk about sexuality, but not sex itself. This is a shame, because it is such a huge part of one's life, and is sometimes very closely connected to one's mental and emotional health in some way.

I have been providing sex therapy from a sexuality and relationship diversity lens for 10 years now. I work with the poly and kink community to both support lifestyle choices and in addressing issues that come up along the way. I am also trained in and experienced in working with clients who want to explore sexuality in general and/or in addressing sexual issues.

I am currently being trained as a sex therapist, and have gained experienced kink friendly training. In my 6 years I have gained tools to assist survivors of sexual assault reclaim their power. Working together to help each individual find their voice so that they can set healthy boundaries and communicate them to others. I have also had the pleasure of working with polyamorous partners, individuals in consensual non monogamy and other lifestyles choices.

Struggles with sexual desire, pleasure, or functioning, often stem from some combination of traumatic life events, health, or relational issues. Sex therapy works to remove blocks in intimate connection in a supportive and non-judgement environment. Together discussion, guided exercises, and various homework assignments, we work to help you find your own erotic pathway towards connection, pleasure and satisfaction.

As a sex therapist, I can help with issues related to gender identity and expression and sexual orientation and expression. I am sex positive and kink affirming. I stand with people in the sexual/gender minorities and advocate for recognition, respect, rights, and safety.

I have advanced training in sex therapy and am currently working on my Doctorate in Clinical Sexology. I have helped men who struggled with ED, and low libido, as well as, clients who struggle with lack of desire, low libido, and those exploring their healthy sexual selves.

Sexual problems can be particularly frustrating and difficult to talk about. The vast majority of humans do it, the vast majority of those have had questions or some issue with sex at least once. But for some reason we aren't allowed to talk about it? Why be in pain and not allowed to tell anyone? Why distance yourself from your partners for fear they will judge you? Why let relationships wither because nobody is getting what they really want? Lets talk about it and get you where you want to be.

I am a significant part of Marriage is the sex part and a place where a lot of people get stuck; help couples work with problems and develop language to help communicate needs in this area.

Pleasure is for everyone. First, reflecting on past influences or messaging will help you gain perspective on how you view sex and what ideas or biases you hold about sex and sexuality. Then, decide if those ideas still pertain to you today or if they are beliefs that you have left unquestioned. Question them and continue to question them. Last, make your own choices about how you want to exist as a sexual being in the world.

Concerns about sexual functioning take a nuanced and specialized approach. I have specific training in treating concerns about sexual functioning including erectile dysfunction, sex addiction, low desire, and differing libidos. I bring sensitivity, compassion, and practical solutions that produce lasting results.

When clients come to me with sexual concerns, they often feel isolated and tell me that their self-esteem has been impacted. Many sexual issues can be successfully addressed through sex therapy including low libido, pain, difficulty with orgasm, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, sexual shame, desire discrepancy between partners, and navigating kink / BDSM. I operate from a sex-positive and collaborative perspective.

Through therapy, education, and personalized strategies, I strive to promote sexual health, intimacy, and overall well-being. It's my passion to guide individuals on their journey towards a more fulfilling and satisfying sexual life. I am a sex positive therapist who works with clients in traditional relationships as well as open relationships. In addition, I also assist clients seeking recovery from sex and porn addiction as well as other problematic sexual behaviors.

Obstacles to achieving pleasure-filled sex with ourselves or others are endless and often interconnected between solo and partnered experiences. You deserve to a sex life full of pleasure, meaning, and connection. Support for individuals, couples, and ENM relationships wanting to thrive.

Infidelity and Porn are big issues. But I am more concerned with the marital sexual experiences. Get the relationship and sex right and the other issues are much easier to deal with. Sex is a very pressured filled experience. It is a vulnerable and scary act, though it is intended to be fun and amazing in how it can extend our emotional intimacy, as God intended it to be.

Absolute sex addiction elite level expert, 26 years & 45,000 hours sexual misbehavior specialist psychotherapy provided, faster recovery. Evidence based research oriented treating of Infidelity/Cheating/Affairs, Prostitution Use, "Seeking Arrangements", Sugar Daddy, Sex Apps, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, Sex Misconduct, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs, utilizing highly effective clinical models. I use my most up to date understanding.

I have experience working with sexual problems including avoidance and compulsions. I also enjoy supporting communities that can experience stigma and oppression around sexuality, including those in open relationship, involved in kink and sex work and those identifying as Transgender and GNC.