The Gottman Method is a therapeutic approach to couples therapy that includes a thorough assessment of the relationship and integrates the research-based intervention, the Sound Relationship House Theory, into treatment. The method (and Sound Relationship House Theory) is based on the research findings of John Gottman’s in depth studies of married couples. The Gottman Method emphasizes the importance of building a strong “friendship system,” believing that investing energy in building a positive connection and knowledge of each other’s inner worlds will make your relationship more fulfilling, and will also make it more resilient to weathering storms. The Sound Relationship House Theory, a fundamental part of the Gottman Method, describes the essential building blocks of marital intimacy for building a lasting and healthy relationship (it includes things like managing conflict and creating shared meaning). Some common issues that the Gottman Method addresses include frequent conflicts or fighting, poor communication, sexual difficulties, infidelity and financial problems, among others. Think this approach might be right for you? Reach out to one of TherapyDen’s Gottman Method experts today.
Gottman Therapy is a research-based approach to couples counseling developed by Drs. John and Julie Schwartz Gottman. It focuses on building and maintaining a strong, healthy relationship through practical, evidence-based strategies. Central to Gottman Therapy is the idea of creating a Sound Relationship House, which includes fostering trust, enhancing communication, and managing conflicts constructively.
— Toya Foster, Licensed Professional CounselorI have completed level 3 Gottman Couples Therapy Training.
— Lisa Caprioli, Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Cary, NCI am trained in Gottman Method therapy at level 3 and have worked with couples from this model since 2015. I love that Gottman Method is research based and has 40 years of practical application behind it's methodology and interventions. I use the Gottman Relationship Checkup with couples and meet with them both together and individually throughout the course of therapy. There are specific tools I use that help couples have a better relationship from day one of our work together. We practice these tools in session and work through the bumps so it's easier to implement at home.
— Heather Seguin, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in , CAI also have advanced training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy, a method backed by 50 years of research, to help couples strengthen their friendship, foster a positive perspective, and constructively manage conflict. The Gottman Method improves intimacy and reduces conflict by teaching couples how to enhance their communication, express appreciation, and navigate disagreements effectively. You will learn concrete tools that you can rely on to help you manage conflict constructively.
— Mary Cook, Marriage & Family Therapist in Fort Collins, COI am trained in Level 2 Gottman Method Couples Therapy. I use this to help couples move past vicious cycles of poor communication and toxic patterns toward trust and intimacy.
— Grace Yeh, Associate Marriage & Family Therapist in Cedar Park, TXThe Gottman Method was the first couples modality I was trained in (Level I + II, as well as Affair Recovery and Addiction Recovery). My clients and I love it for its very approachable framework, and I still use it often.
— Christian Bumpous, Marriage & Family Therapist in Nashville, TNasha is also trained in Gottman Method Couples Therapy (Level 2), and can teach you the communication skills known to be associated with happier relationships as a supplement to the our deeper work with EFT. Using the most effective methods, we will develop an understanding of the pattern in which you’re caught, learn how to relate in a way that will deepen your understanding of one another, and restructure your interaction with each other for true connection.
— Heart of the Matter Couples Therapy, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Fort Collins, COCompleted Levels 1 and 2 Clinical Training of the Gottman Method Couples Therapy
— Philip Gnilka, Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor in Las Vegas, NVI successfully completed Levels 1 and 2 training through the Gottman Institute
— Sherri Davidson, Associate Marriage & Family Therapist in Marysville, WAI am level 2 trained and a leader in the 7 Principles of Making a Marriage Work Workshop.
— Kate St. Onge, Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Burlington, CTThe goals of Gottman Method Couples Therapy are to disarm conflicting verbal communication; increase intimacy, respect, and affection; remove barriers that create a feeling of stagnancy; and create a heightened sense of empathy and understanding within the context of the relationship.
— Noelle Benach, Counselor in Baltimore, MDI use the Gottman Method to help you and your partner reflect on what brought you together, emphasizing the strengths of your relationship. This approach provides tools for effective conflict management, laying the groundwork for healthy communication. We will find ways you can foster fondness and appreciation, encouraging both of you to intentionally invest in each other emotionally. Ultimately, this work aims to rebuild your friendship and reignite the passion and romance for each other.
— Daniela Cruz Castorena, Marriage & Family Therapist in Fort Collins, COI am being trained in the Gottman Method to assist couples in developing friendship, conflict management, and creation of shared meaning. I help couples transform negative ways they communicate with positive interactions to help heal past resentments. The Gottman Method includes, "interventions designed to increase closeness and intimacy are used to improve friendship, deepen emotional connection, and create changes which enhances the couples shared goals. Relapse prevention is also addressed."
— Caitlin Miller, Counselor in Northbrook, ILI am Gottman level one trained clinician. This work can be done individually or in couples work. The content is also applicable to new families with new or additional children in helping the parents communicate in a healthy and effect ways during this time of change and transition in their lives. I am certified in the Bringing Baby Home™ curriculum which can be explored individually. Gottman work can also be applied in grief and loss challenges.
— Audrianna Gurr, Licensed Professional Counselor in Portland, ORI work with couples in Maine via virtual platform and using a Gottman approach.
— Amy K. Cummings-Aponte, Counselor in Gainesville, FLI am trained in Gottman Method therapy at level 3 and have worked with couples from this model since 2015. I love that Gottman Method is research based and has 40 years of practical application behind it's methodology and interventions. I use the Gottman Relationship Checkup with couples and meet with them both together and individually throughout the course of therapy. There are specific tools I use that help couples have a better relationship from day one of our work together. We practice these tools in session and work through the bumps so it's easier to implement at home.
— Heather Seguin, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in , CA