The Gottman Method is a therapeutic approach to couples therapy that includes a thorough assessment of the relationship and integrates the research-based intervention, the Sound Relationship House Theory, into treatment. The method (and Sound Relationship House Theory) is based on the research findings of John Gottman’s in depth studies of married couples. The Gottman Method emphasizes the importance of building a strong “friendship system,” believing that investing energy in building a positive connection and knowledge of each other’s inner worlds will make your relationship more fulfilling, and will also make it more resilient to weathering storms. The Sound Relationship House Theory, a fundamental part of the Gottman Method, describes the essential building blocks of marital intimacy for building a lasting and healthy relationship (it includes things like managing conflict and creating shared meaning). Some common issues that the Gottman Method addresses include frequent conflicts or fighting, poor communication, sexual difficulties, infidelity and financial problems, among others. Think this approach might be right for you? Reach out to one of TherapyDen’s Gottman Method experts today.
My success with relationship repair and fortifying is a result of transforming my approach and marriage with Gottman researched tools & strategies. I completed the following Gottman trainings: Level 1 (overview of the research, method), Level 2 (assessment, intervention & co-morbidities training with video samples of research couples), Affairs and Broken Trust repair, Couples & Addiction Recovery. I help your areas of friendship & conflict with this approach.
— Shannon Batts, Licensed Professional CounselorI have completed the Gottman Method of Relationship Therapy levels 1 and 2 trainings.
— Alana D’Ambrosio, Marriage and Family Therapist Associate in Denver, COI am being trained in the Gottman Method to assist couples in developing friendship, conflict management, and creation of shared meaning. I help couples transform negative ways they communicate with positive interactions to help heal past resentments. The Gottman Method includes, "interventions designed to increase closeness and intimacy are used to improve friendship, deepen emotional connection, and create changes which enhances the couples shared goals."
— Caitlin Miller, Counselor in Chicago, ILWhen working with couples I primarily use the Gottman Method. Gottman Method focuses on helping couples increase respect and create an environment of appreciation for each other. As a result of this, couples tend to see an increase in intimacy and report that they are better able to navigate through conflict and are better able to process the aftermath of a conflict. Through the Gottman method couples gain education on relationships and learn skills to help them communicate and stay connected when experiencing stress or when they are in conflict. The Gottman method has a lot of data to support its efficacy which is one of the reasons I am such a fan of this approach.
— Gwendolyn Nelson-Terry, Marriage & Family Therapist in Berkeley, CAI am being trained in the Gottman Method to assist couples in developing friendship, conflict management, and creation of shared meaning. I help couples transform negative ways they communicate with positive interactions to help heal past resentments. The Gottman Method includes, "interventions designed to increase closeness and intimacy are used to improve friendship, deepen emotional connection, and create changes which enhances the couples shared goals."
— Caitlin Miller, Counselor in Chicago, ILI am level 2 trained and a leader in the 7 Principles of Making a Marriage Work Workshop.
— Kate St. Onge, Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Burlington, CTThe goals of Gottman Method Couples Therapy are to disarm conflicting verbal communication; increase intimacy, respect, and affection; remove barriers that create a feeling of stagnancy; and create a heightened sense of empathy and understanding within the context of the relationship.
— Noelle Benach, Counselor in Baltimore, MDCouples Counseling is where both parties start the process of building a foundation of mutual respect and desire to intentionally hear one another. You don’t have to be in crisis in your relationship to desire to have the opportunity to work on communication around finances, shared responsibility, transition to parenting, intimacy, conflict- you name it, we’ve worked on it before in couples therapy.
— The Couch Therapy, Psychotherapist in Colleyville, TXI utilize the Gottman Method of Couples Counseling to help couples find connection, find areas of growth, and work through conflict management. I will also use other evidence based practices to help couples strengthen their relationship.
— Rebekah Grohn, M.Ed, LPC, Therapist in Katy, TXThe Gottman Method is a widely recognized and researched approach to couples therapy developed by Dr. John Gottman and Dr. Julie Gottman, who are renowned clinical psychologists and researchers in the field of relationships. The method is based on their extensive research and observations of couples over several decades, which has led to the identification of key factors that contribute to successful, long-lasting relationships.
— Cyndi Peters, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Libertyville, ILCompleted Clinical Level One and Level Two of Gottman Method Couples Therapy through the Gottman Institute.
— Alyssa Doberstein, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Raleigh, NCI have completed Level 1 of Gottman Method training. Gottman Method is heavily researched with long term success with partnerships and couples.
— Sarah Newcomer, Marriage & Family Therapist in , OHI am highly proficient in the Gottman Method, a research-based approach focused on improving relationships and enhancing communication. With specialized training and extensive experience, I utilize proven techniques to identify and address relationship dynamics, improve intimacy, and build trust. My expertise in the Gottman Method allows me to help couples strengthen their connections, navigate conflicts, and create lasting, fulfilling partnerships based on mutual understanding and respect.
— Emily Martinez, Licensed Clinical Social Worker in New York, NYI am a Certified Gottman Method Couples Therapist (CGT). I am the first Black male psychotherapist and in the world to become a CGT. The Gottman Method for couples counseling is a research based couples counseling modality that can help couples and other "non traditional" relationships repair, reconnect and revitalize. It is a leading edge treatment that can be used to work through just about any problem including communication issues, infidelity, trauma and substance abuse.
— John Edwards, Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Oakland, CACouples counseling provides the opportunity for couples at all stages of marriage to deepen their commitment, enhance communication, and strengthen positive behaviors that will help partners cope with issues that frequently impact marriage. Most couples are in some distress by the time they make the call for an appointment. In fact, couples wait an average of seven years after they realize that there are problems in their relationship. You don't have to wait that long.
— Dr. David Shoup, Psychologist in Pacifica, CAThe Gottman Method is backed by 45+ years of research in assessing and treating couples. It is used to help couples strengthen their relationships by repairing past hurts and replacing negative conflict patterns with positive ones. I've helped many couples and individuals use these methods to salvage failing relationships and create new successful relationships. Find out more at https://www.gottman.com/
— Adam Kaluzshner, Clinical Psychologist in Philadelphia, PAI am a Gottman Level 1 certified counselor. Although I employ other modalities for couples counseling, I find the Gottman techniques to be most effective in helping clients improve their communication with each other.
— Christine Kotlarski, Licensed Clinical Social Worker in ,Completed Level 1 and 2 in Gottman Method Couple Therapy
— Erica Garcia, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Ann Arbor, MI