Ryan O'Millian
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LACI offer psychoanalytic psychotherapy for people seeking freedom from their painful thoughts, feelings and behaviors.
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A sexual problem, sometimes called a sexual dysfunction, is a problem during any phase of the sexual sexual act (such as desire, arousal or orgasm). Although many people experience trouble with sex at some point, it is a topic that many people are hesitant to discuss. There are a number of specific sexual disorders, including sexual desire disorders (low libido), sexual arousal disorders (inability to become aroused – erectile dysfunction or vaginal dryness, for example), orgasm disorders (delay or non-appearance of orgasms) and sexual pain disorders (painful intercourse, most commonly affecting women). A sexual problem can occur suddenly or develop slowly, over an extended period of time. The reasons for sexual problems can widely vary but may include factors such as fluctuating hormones, aging, stress, anxiety, depression, fatigue, diet, medications, illness or past sexual trauma. If you are dealing with sexual problems, a qualified professional therapist can help you identify the cause and help you develop ways to cope. Reach out to one of TherapyDen’s sexual problems experts today.
We offer effective counseling to all ages and to anyone who lives in Colorado. Or, usually lives in Colorado. If you are a Colorado resident but happen to be visiting another state or temporarily going to school in another state then we may be able to work with you. If you would like to know if your location is one that we can serve give us a call. You will talk to a REAL person who knows our therapists personally. They will be able to provide you with honest and informed support.
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I specialize in relationship issues. I practice Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT), and I am the founder of the Fort Collins EFT Community. With over 160 cumulative hours of direct training in EFT and over 100 hours of mentorship from the best-of-the-best supervisors in the model, I love this method. EFT is the most evidence-based couples therapy method, with 90% of couples improving their relationships. You will learn how to communicate authentically and break out of patterns.
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Are you feeling challenged, overwhelmed, or having trouble coping with life? Are you ready to take that giant leap and reclaim control of your life? You've come to the best place! I would be honored to be a part of your passage of healing, empowerment, health, and to help you regain control of your life regardless of the challenges you find yourself facing.
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My clients are adults struggling with sexual issues*, body image, stress, deconstruction from religion, cancer, sexual assault, and life transitions such as young adulthood and menopause. Each person is unique, so I work with each client to create a custom treatment plan to fit their goals. (*libido, sexual identity, out of control sexual behavior, desire discrepancy in relationship, and pelvic pain)
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I offer a space that is open and inviting to process sexuality, spirituality, anxiety/depression, LGBTQIA, consensual non-monogamy, relationships, personal growth and much more. I specialize in cancer counseling - both for the individual in treatment and for the caregiver. I integrate approaches that best suit your personality and needs - narrative, DBT, Existentialism.
I work with folx who are searching for a deeper connection with others, and ultimately with themselves. Who are in the process or on the precipice of their process of shedding and unlearning all that has been conditioned and socialized into them-- who are ready to better understand who they actually are and to release who they were told they should be. I work with single adults and adults practicing various relational configurations.
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Are your relationships suffering? Are you struggling to date, preserve your relationship, or find sexual satisfaction in your relationships? Are you trying to get pregnant, suffering from a loss, or a new parent feeling disconnected from your baby? Relationship issues are often at the core of our suffering and can leave us feeling alone, rejected, and misunderstood. You deserve the chance to feel seen, to heal, and to grow through and toward connection.
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By the time you’ve come here, you’ve probably experienced frustration, disconnection, and fear. How could all those feelings not have an impact on your mood, relationships, and so much of life? You are capable of strong intimate relationships with partners and, most importantly, with yourself. Whether you’re in a sexual rut or haunted by sexual trauma, you can experience more pleasure and connection in your life.
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I am strongly connected with non-traditional individuals and relationships, and work to cultivate a safe place for all people, most frequently working with clients in queer, ethically non-monogamous, & kink communities. I have specialized training and experience working with families in transition, particularly prenatal and postpartum periods. My clients are typically navigating life transitions, such as relationship beginning/end, moves, college/career change, and any explorations of identity.
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I see high achievers who encounter difficulties in maintaining healthy relationships and robust sex life. These persons often desire to have their feelings heard and validated, their strengths affirmed, and the roots of their difficulties addressed as they are spurred on to build meaningful social connections and maximize their life experiences. I treat individuals, mother/daughter dyads, couples, and consensually non-monogamous partners ranging from 17 years of age and up.
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Are you struggling with aligning your life activities with your values and goals? Do you find yourself feeling stuck in unfulfilling relationships? It’s vital to acknowledge and face your current situation and the feelings you have about it in order to make change happen, and psychotherapy provides space for this. We'll begin by talking about your goals for therapy, and we'll collaborate on a plan for our work together.
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What if I can't handle Polyamory or Non-Monogamy? Am I Queer enough? Where do I even begin to explore my Kinks or Power-Exchange dynamics? Am I really Addicted?... I offer a safe and supportive space for my clients to address these questions, as well as explore other concerns regarding their identity, relationships, needs, and coping skills. The overarching goal of our work will be to help you live more authentically, honestly, and with greater confidence.
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Feeling caught in a frustrating pattern in your dating life or committed relationship? Feeling like experiences in your past are making it difficult to attain or sustain connection? In an era of online dating and instant connection that feels like disconnection, we will work together to understand your past, your current negative patterns, and how to make changes towards healthy relationships.
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Many clients who work with me are ready for their relationships to heal and their sexual lives to improve. They notice that they are stuck in the same unhealthy and unproductive patterns in their relationships or dating experiences. They feel motivated to improve their confidence and pleasure with intimacy, but they feel stuck in how to reach these goals on their own. I can help to identify the patterns, beliefs, and emotions that are standing in the way of your relationship and sexual health.
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I specialize in working with LGBTQIA+ individuals. My areas of focus include sexuality, anxiety, identity, relationships, life-transitions, and depression. I particularly love working with individuals to build a newfound sense of confidence, trust, and self-love.
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I have supported many clients who are either exploring ethical non-monogamy/ polyamory/ kink in their relationship(s), or have opened up their relationship and found that there's a lot to navigate in more complex dynamics. I also help couples improve/ enhance their skills in effective communication, building intimacy, conflict resolution and sexual connection. I often support parents who are raising children in an array of relationship structures including traditional, blended or ENM families.
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We serve couples, individuals, kids/teens and families looking to improve their relationships. Whether you struggle with conflict, miscommunication, disconnection or are in need of healing, we strive to help you nurture strong and loving relationships. We offer a diverse team of relationship specialists, including Christian counseling; LGBTQ knowledgeable and affirming therapy; sex therapy; grief counseling; and therapy for people with kink, BDSM, non-monogamy and poly relationships.
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Do you feel like your relationship has lost the connection that it once had? Have you found yourself struggling to be heard, understood and accepted by others? Do you find yourself in arguments with your partner that feel like the same one over and over again? If you have answered yes to any of these questions then you are not alone. I work with many clients who find themselves feeling stuck in life and their relationships without knowing what to do next.
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