Divorce

Although common in the U.S. (50% of marriages end in divorce), a decision to end a marriage can be upsetting and filled with a number of opposing emotions. Each separation is unique and can be a heavy, emotional process for the family involved. Before, during and after a divorce, you might experience a myriad of feelings, including loss, anger, sadness, rejection, shock, regret, doubt, guilt, bitterness, or fear. In addition to helping to process these emotions, therapists that specialize in divorce are often well versed in the logistical issues that come up and can help guide individuals through questions such as living arrangements, finances, and more. Children involved in divorce also often have trouble coping. Seeing a qualified professional therapist during this time can help them, and you, to manage in healthy ways. Contact one of TherapyDen’s divorce specialists for help today!

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I work specifically with women who have divorce as part of their stories. Reclaiming your identity, working through issues of emotional abuse, and coparenting are all topics that we will explore in session.

— Kimberly Dudley, Licensed Mental Health Counselor in Vancouver, WA

Divorce sucks. Many experience anxiety, depression, fear, anger, shame, guilt, and loneliness. There are also financial negotiations, custody battles, and disappointments. Friends and family may judge the couple for “not trying hard enough”and people are quick to blame one or both partners for possessing relational flaws. As you deal with the loss of your marriage and the stigma it comes with, you may also feel you have lost yourself along the way. Call or email me today.

— Corrie Blissit, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in ,
 

Divorce is such a difficult loss to move forward on. It's hard to find peace, joy and purpose during this process and after the divorce is finalized. I'm here to help you move through the process of healing. I have been through a divorce myself too, so I can empathize with you the pain you're going through. I offer many approaches for treatment from Brainspotting to Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Mindfulness and Self-compassion techniques.

— Julia Hollenbeck, Counselor in Tomball, TX

Divorce is a major life transition. I provide support in processing emotions, rebuilding self-identity, and developing coping strategies to move forward with confidence and clarity.

— Brittany Turner, Clinical Social Worker
 

I guide clients through the challenging process of separation or divorce. As a certified Discernment Counselor, I offer a short-term approach for couples with mixed feelings about their relationship's future. I also support individuals navigating the end of a relationship, process complex emotions or making decisions. Whether you're contemplating separation, in the midst of divorce, or dealing with its aftermath, I provide a space to gain clarity and move forward.

— Miriam Torres Brinkmann, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in San Diego, CA

Healing from any challenging relationship or building a new healthy one

— Jeremy Sublett, Psychotherapist in Nashville, TN
 

I support couples and individuals as they navigate the complexities of divorce, utilizing Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and discernment counseling. A couple may need EFT interventions to repair and strengthen their relationship. In cases where one partner is leaning out and the other is leaning into the marriage, discernment counseling helps couples make informed decisions about whether to pursue separation.

— Chip Neuenschwander, Counselor in Wayzata, MN

Working with high conflict divorces, whether, during or after has been a major part of my practice. My experience and area of specialty covers managing anxiety, stress, and/or depression during the process of a high conflict divorces. Additionally understanding the process of a high conflict divorce leaves you with significant trauma to process and/or a difficult individual to coparent with yielded way for my specializing in the aftermath.

— Zoe Trifilio Pfaffman, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Jacksonville Beach, FL
 

I specialize in helping people going through high conflict divorce and custody battles, parallel parenting difficulties, post-separation abuse, and Court trauma. I'm also a Level 2 Certified Clinical Trauma Professional and am trained in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR).

— Jodie Benabe, Clinical Psychologist in Boulder, CO

As a Marriage and Family Therapist, I am specifically trained to help client navigate the decision to stay or leave a marriage, along with process the pain of divorce. I am specifically trained as a Certified Divorce coach, to help clients be their best self while going through one of the hardest times in their lives.

— Michelle Lechnyr, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Snohomish, WA
 

I help my clients explore their relationship with their spouse or partner. We can look for red and green flags and areas of subtle abuse. I also run support groups for people contemplating divorce or recovering from a toxic divorce.

— Carrie Mead, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor in Westminster, MD

My masters degree is in Marriage and Family Therapy which provides me the academic and experiential background when treating couples and relationship distress. Over the last 10 years I have developed a niche in assisting clients in working through divorce in individual, couples and group settings.

— Erika Johnson, Clinical Psychologist in Colorado Springs, CO
 

most people who go through a divorce will tell you it was one of the hardest things they ever survived. Going through it alone just magnifies the intensity of it. You can only put on a tough front and act like everything is okay for so long!

— Deborah Farber, Counselor in Tulsa, OK

Parents who are experiencing divorce and child custody evaluations (social studies) are often under extreme stress. This makes it difficult to present their case in the most rational and emotion-free way. I have conducted these evaluations and I know what is expected and how to prepare properly in order help my client hit the "hot buttons" and avoid the traps, and deal with evaluator bias. I am able to perform child custody evaluations, but I prefer to coach and prepare parents in divorce and child custody cases to present their case to the evaluator in the most powerful and effective way. I can say with 100% certainty that proper preparation for a social study or custody evaluation will result in a better outcome for my client and for his/her children.

— Stephen Finstein, Therapist in Dallas, TX
 

Divorce is one of life's most challenging transitions, often accompanied by a whirlwind of emotions ranging from grief and anger to confusion and relief. The pain and upheaval of divorce can feel isolating, but you don't have to navigate this journey alone. As a therapist, I provide a compassionate space for you to process the myriad feelings that come with this change, assisting in navigating the practical and emotional complexities. Together, we'll explore ways to heal and reinvent yourself.

— Ellery Wren, Licensed Professional Counselor Associate in Plano, TX

Divorce and separation can be disorienting. It can be helpful for individuals to have an emotionally safe place to sort through the overwhelming thoughts, feelings, and beliefs with a therapist who is trained to offer comfort and perspective. I see my role with those struggling with divorce as someone who can assist in processing the emotion, offer strategies on caring for yourself (esp when having to communicate with your ex), and facilitate the creation of a helpful narrative.

— Arielle Fettman, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Portland, OR
 

I offer Discernment Counseling for those trying to determine if they should stay together or separate. For those looking to separate with dignity and respect, I offer Mediation services. If you are involved in a Collaborative Divorce, I can serve as a Divorce Coach and Child Specialist. I offer Divorce Counseling, Co-Parenting, and Parenting Plan Consultation. I also work collaboratively with my team offering Reunification Therapy, Psychological, Custody and Substance Abuse Evaluations.

— Katrina Kuzyszyn-Jones, Psychologist in Durham, NC

Divorce and Co-Parenting - Divorce can bring pain like no other. A profound pain and grief, impacting everyone involved. It can trigger feelings of loss, confusion, and emotional overwhelm, often affecting personal identity and family dynamics. Seek support to help you process these emotions, rebuild self-trust, and navigate this difficult transition with clarity and healing, fostering resilience and healthier relationships in the aftermath. Co-Parenting should always be a priority.

— Caroline Lockett - Corwell, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Los Angeles, CA
 

I have significant experience working with families going through high-conflict divorces, including cases focused on reunification and parental alientation.

— James Young, Licensed Professional Counselor Associate in Austin, TX

Feeling stuck between staying and leaving? Discernment counseling helps couples gain clarity and confidence about their relationship’s future. Whether one of you is leaning out or both feel uncertain, this structured, short-term process explores what’s broken, what can be healed, and what path feels right. Using Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy, I help you navigate this crossroads with honesty, insight, and a plan—so you can move forward with confidence.

— Evon Inyang, Associate Marriage & Family Therapist