Family Conflict

Experiencing occasional conflict is very common, even in the closest of families. Sources of everyday conflict are typically things like miscommunication or misunderstandings. Serious, long-term conflicts can arise from things like substance abuse, financial problems, marital problems, a birth, a job change, or a big move. Whether the source of a families discord is major or minor, ongoing conflict can cause a lot of stress. Allowing conflict to linger and fester can cause lasting damage to familial relationships. If you and your family are experiencing ongoing conflicts, reach out to one of TherapyDen’s family conflict experts today.

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I have specific monthly training that focuses on family systems, family conflict, relationship issues, and mental health. My Master's program was Marriage, Family, and Couple Counseling. I have a history of working in Family Based Services and Addiction.

— Abigail Muir, Licensed Professional Counselor

We all exist in families, whether they served us well or not. Wrestling with the experiences and patterns of our family may be the most important way we grow into our own place in the world. The intergenerational world of families is my passion and expertise. I am trained to think about family as a deeply unique but common human experience that can be better understood and explained using Family Systems Theory.

— Lynne Silva-Breen, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Burnsville, MN
 

Conflict happens when people who love each other miscommunicate. Couples and family therapy can help you strengthen your relationship by understanding conflict patterns and learning new skills.

— Thomas Wood, Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Bayside, WI

We are trained to consider presenting issues from a contextual family systems lens and are always considering complex intergenerational trauma and other family dynamics in our work with all clients- whether you come to therapy with your family or as an individual.

— Sprout Therapy PDX, Licensed Professional Counselor in Portland, OR
 

As a family therapist I have dealt with family conflict and marital conflict of varying intensity. That has included families where conflict has led to violence and families dealing with issues of substance abuse and of infidelity. My background has included a number of years working with and consulting to programs working with families referred by social service departments .

— Daniel Minuchin, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in ,

Our family affects who we are and who we become, both for the better and worse. We learn our vocabulary, habits, customs, and rituals and how to view and observe the world around us. Anyone seeking healthier, closer family relationships can benefit from family therapy.Family therapy is necessary to address family issues and heal a family’s wounds. Does this resonate with your family, consider seeking family therapy. Family therapy can be beneficial on many different levels.

— Jennifer Hamrock, Associate Marriage & Family Therapist in Hermosa Beach, CA
 

Our work in Family Law has equipped us with expertise in working with interpersonal violence and other family conflict. We are here to help you manage the significant challenges in a relationship with IPV and assist you on issues of safety and restructuring your boundaries as you move through the process. This includes working with parents and children in improving their relationships and with parents on strengthening their abilities to co-parent.

— Paula E. Bruce, Ph.D. & Associates, A Psychological Corporation, Psychologist in Beverly Hills, CA

I believe we are hardwired to seek affirming and intimate bonds with others. Conflict with parents, partners, children, siblings, and extended family can cause significant stress and unhappiness. I can assist in developing communication skills, healthy boundaries, conflict resolution techniques, and relationship scripts. The goal is to establish relationships with others that are fulfilling and allow for personal growth.

— Carly Friedman, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associate in San Antonio, TX
 

What we learn from our own family affects our sense of self and seeps into our partnerships, work, and child-rearing. Solid individual or couples' therapy involves values clarification, trust and commitment, developing positive feelings towards oneself and our partner, sharing in life achievements, and conflict resolution skills. Insight isn't the cure, but it's where action begins.

— Katrina Kuzyszyn-Jones, Psychologist in Durham, NC

Struggling with relationships with family members, family or origin or someone close to you? Maybe you have a toxic or abusive family member? Family conflict can be distressing and make you feel alienated. Let me help you navigate these issues and create a plan so that you can have the peace and valuable relationships you deserve!

— Lauren Butcher, Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Wylie, TX
 

I have worked with family units who have struggled with being able to effectively communicate their emotions and concerns within the family unit. I will work to remain a neutral party that can facilitate navigation of these complex communication issues and build a plan to increase the effectiveness of communication and emotional regulation.

— Kealan Muth, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associate in Austin, TX

I have worked with families that have high conflict. I have worked with the children of divorce and the parents with co-parenting.

— Angeline Baucom, Associate Marriage & Family Therapist in Carlsbad, CA
 

Family conflict to me is all about a few main themes: communication, most of all, and HOW we communicate with each other and have been communicated with; how families are the first production or play we learn in life, to use theatre language, and how the values, priorities, caring, we do (or do not) learn then are crucial to how we see things later in life; how families are frequently the last people to see or accept change and growth and relate to that change and growth.

— T.Lee Shostack, Clinical Social Worker in , MA

The family unit may experience significant stress because of work, school, or the personality differences of various family members. In addition, as children grow and enter new phases in their lives, parents and children may need help in a safe environment to explore ways of coping with these changes. Our clinicians work with families and/or with a parent and a child to help them learn how to navigate transitions, communicate effectively, and develop an empathic, secure connection.

— Washington Psychological Wellness, Mental Health Practitioner in Gaithersburg, MD
 

Parents often unknowingly bring their own issues into their children's lives. And at the same time, children come into this world with their own temperament & are impacted by their own experiences that can contribute to family dynamics. I help family members truly see, hear, know & understand one another. I help parents develop healthy empathic relationships with their children, which helps the children feel loved, supported & respected. The result is greater harmony and ease in the family.

— Annette Barnett, Associate Marriage & Family Therapist in Saratoga, CA

I have experience working as a family therapist at an residential treatment center.

— Jackie Lee, Therapist in Grapevine, TX
 

By using systems thinking, I consider every person's perspective in session and seek the chance to find common ground between you and those you love. Specific interests: mothering, fathering, parenting, blended families, co-parenting during and after conflict, fictive kinship/presumed family, family building (child free, birth, infertility, surrogacy, adoption), and family stressors around coming out/disclosing

— Laura McMaster, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Atlanta, GA

Family relationships can feel like a hurricane and there’s no end in sight to the conflicts. My approach looks at everyone’s perspective to make sure that they are listened to and solutions can be found to any family conflict. No sides are taken and everyone’s voice is heard so that there is understanding of how each person feels. I want my clients to leave with the confidence that they can handle any conflicts in the future and find their own solutions to whatever challenges they may face.

— Jacob Rincon, Associate Marriage & Family Therapist in San Antonio, TX