About My Clients
Sexuality and Pleasure are stigmatized, especially if we don't feel good about ourselves, our bodies. I specialize in sexuality, gender, relationship issues specifically for: BIPOC, LGBTQIA polyamory/swinger/non-monogamy, gender-fluid/non-conforming, kink, BDSM, fetish, sw'ers, intersectionality and variations in and within sexual expression. I work to re-educate, and empower. I work with clients all over, regardless of location, to signifcantly reduce distress and undo longer standing concerns.
My Background and Approach
Anti-Racism Commitment I prioritize sexuality and pleasure, while centering the experiences and voices of BIPOC, LGBTQIA, gender variant, kink, non-monogamous, polyamorous, BDSM, sex workers and and the intersectionality of all or any. Racism and Systemic Oppression are forms of structural violence that denies these communities fundamental human rights. The work we do understands that pleasure is integral to our healing. A large part of our work is challenging unhealthy and unhelpful social constructs that impair our ability to connect and relate. We are committed to helping you address underlying principles of shame and judgement related to sex-negativity, white supremacy, ableism, body-shaming and more. I understand that everyone is impacted by these themes in various cultures, and strive to support you in working toward deeper acceptance of yourself and others to better access your own ability to experience peace, acceptance and joy.
My Personal Beliefs and Interests
I have a BA and MA both in clinical psychology, as well as a concentration in human sexuality, and have been working in mental health since 1993 with a variety of populations , diverse lifestyles, including working with individuals and families affected by HIV/Aids, sexual abuse survivors, drug addiction treatment, sex offenders, families of sex offenders, foster children and families, and children and their families in day treatment and school settings. As a south Asian woman of color, I work to de-stigmatize sexuality, to look outside of the box when it comes to sex and gender, to normalize the non-normative. I center the experiences of people of color, varying bodily proportions and functions, folx with accents, non-neuro typical and neuro-divergent folx and anyone that does not identify with the normative when it comes to gender, sexual or relationships. I also have a hand picked team of highly effective therapists and coaches trained by me and ready to see you!