Services
- Couples
About My Clients
Have you and your partner drifted apart? Do you feel lonely within your relationship? Did you recently discover your partner's affair? It's not unusual for people to wake up beside each other and feel miles away. The problem for most is that they never learned how to be in an intimate partnership. They never learned how to ask for what they want and need in a way that their partner can hear and respond to them. I want to change that. The best relationships require a willingness to rock the boat.
How I Can Help You
I have devoted my career to helping couples just like you overcome the pain of infidelity and reconnect with their partners. It may not seem like it right now, but there are ways that you can repair the broken bond between you. Working with couples in crisis- couples who fear their relationship is at an end- is my specialty. I have training in EFT, or Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, which allows us to take a deep dive into the emotional epicenter of a relationship. The journey can be a bit painful at first which is why the focus, in the beginning, is on creating a safe space in the therapy room. We will work on ways that you can regulate your emotions- which is not the same as stifling them- as well as ways you and your partner can co-regulate each other. Incorporating techniques to increase your awareness of yourself and your partner in the moment, mindfulness is key to the transformation ahead. I'm a sucker for happy endings. Let me help you achieve yours.
My Personal Beliefs and Interests
I believe that every human is meant for connection- with themselves, with each other, with nature, with god (whatever form that may take). I believe that life is precious and is inherently valuable. I spent several years working on the local crisis line- leading individuals from the edge of suicide to healthier, meaningful lives. I learned the value of life and saw resilience where none would have imagined it existed. I believe that love comes in many forms and that the world should be a much more open and loving place. While I am a white, cis-gender, heterosexual male, I acknowledge my privilege in the world and hope to use it to the benefit of those less fortunate. I am poly- and kink- friendly.