Services
- Individual
- Couples
- Family
About My Clients
Sex Therapist and Full Psychologist in one. From Polyamory to Infidelity, for both women and men, all kinds of Sexual and Alternative lifestyle issues. I want to give help and support -WITHOUT JUDGEMENT OR SHAME. I am an expert on depression/anxiety and complicated relationships. Porn addiction, Impotence, Jealousy, sexual enhancements. I see my clients as just normal people, not mentally ill, weak, sick, or perverted.
My Background and Approach
You need to be able to connect and trust your therapist. You need to know they genuinely care about you. I do have both a Master's degree and a Doctoral degree in Psychology. I have 22 years post grad experience counseling, 28 years of counseling all together. My professors were ex-hippies and hated the traditional, doctor knows it all-medical model. The client is the expert on their life, but my job is to help them feel heard, understood, and accepted. I then I have to lead the client to a new perspective, to get them out of their rut. I primarily use cognitive behavioral therapy. Our thinking causes our emotion. We are ultimately in control of our emotions. We just need to become more aware of our unrealized thoughts that can negatively control us. For the first 20 years of my career, I helped some of the most traumatic cases one can imagine. Thus, I learned a great deal about treating severe depression and anxiety, in addition to trauma.
My Personal Beliefs and Interests
"Safe, sane, and consensual." That's the motto for The Lifestyle, yet it is a good motto for me in therapy and in helping people with their hurting. I value and respect each person as their own unique individual. I believe sex is an important part of life and should not be hidden or ashamed of. Relationships, intimacy, peace of mind - LOVE- are more important of course.